Self-Discovery
What is your
Intimacy Style?
The following statements describe how some people feel in their close relationships. There are no right or wrong answers — this is about understanding your own patterns. For each statement, choose the number that best reflects how much it sounds like you.
1 Not at all like me
2 Rarely like me
3 Somewhat like me
4 Often like me
5 Very much like me
Please answer all 14 questions before continuing.
Your Profile
Attachment Anxiety
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Attachment Avoidance
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Fearful / Push-Pull
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Responsive Desire
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This is not a validated psychometric instrument. It is designed to open conversation and support self-understanding. Results should be held lightly and interpreted in context.